Saturday, June 21, 2008

Life - A story untold ever...

I am sad today evening. At times its so difficult to face problems and take them over. We tend to run away and hide off somewhere, to a more secured safe house. Is it like this for most of the people out there? I am just wodnering!!!

There is this friend of mine who has some legal issues in her life. She's married and is in the verge of a divorce. Both of them had been my close friends and I was always happy to have been there to relish every moment of their wedding. Today, it looks like a dream when she is pouring out to me the problems of her marriage. I am dumbstruck, my mind is not working and I know whatever it is, how much ever big their problems are, still, deep inside they still carry the love they had 5 years back. But when its so easy for me to see it in their eyes, so well, why are they not able to see it in each other. Or have they got blindfolded with the hatred, ego and the whole lot of failed expectations on each other.



I wonder why it is so difficult to love each other. The love, that we all read in the books and see in movies. The love that is existing in everyone's heart, all set to be given and never expected to be received back. Is that something that we can see only in movies or is it something which we can also adopt in our lives. I am not quite sure, but then I guess its possible if we are ready to forgive and most important to forget the past. Is it so diificult to do this simple thing when we know so clearly that we only have a lifetime and not an eternity to live. The days are limited, so why are we complicating the process by our own stupidness. Can we make it more simpler so that we can move on and enjoy the few days that we are existing in this face of earth. Is it possible?? What do you think....?

1 comment:

jeffrey zed said...

true love exists, we merely lack the tools to communicate the phenomenon. it happens deep inside your soul and only bursts onto the surface through analogies and metaphors. you can only communicate it in your own words and so ego always seems to rear its head when you deliberate upon the details.

i still believe we can bring life back to the simpler days. something has gone wrong and we're all waking up to find out where our indifference caught us. love is still there, sleeping between the lines and stirring for those of us who want to know it in greater detail.

i'm sorry you have to go through the loss of your friend's marriage. i hope the strain is not too much for you.